Question of Motivation in the Virtual Environment

“I failed her.” Several parents referenced their child’s progress during virtual schooling as a disaster or failure. Yet, where are the research based parenting experts on this issue?-They are trying to figure this out as they go, just like the rest of us. 

In the meantime resources do exist related to online and virtual learning, much of which is without the added uncertainty of COVID issues. The University of Michigan produced a study that looked at motivational factors for different age groups of learners. This study did take into account factors related to the initial shut down in the spring of 2020, which many called emergency remote learning rather than virtual or online.

According to this study, the motivation for elementary aged learners is related to privileges and freedoms. Examples include free time on a tablet, tv time, going outside or other freetime options. If this type of motivator works for your child, then things like rewards for task completion would probably work well. If you get your math done before lunch then you can take 20 minutes to call a friend. This is where If/Then statements are handy. I would be very precise in the expectation. For example:

“Tommy, if you can show me that you completed all of your math and reading assignments for today, we can make brownies for dessert.”

“Sarah, if you show me that you have completed all of the missing work for Science, then I will return the cord to the playstation.”

The same study identified different factors for middle school learners. Academic pressure motivates this group better than rewards and privileges. Since children of this age strive to show independence and desire responsibilities the added pressure to meet those expectations seems to be a good tool. For instance, knowing that in order to get a good grade, then these tasks need to be finished. Perhaps, language like you have to be able to do this to be ready for high school. From my own experience, I believe that privileges still play a role in a middle schooler, but they may be best moved to action by these sorts of influences.

Finally, high schoolers, according to the same study, respond most favorably to positive relationships. When teachers take time to speak to your child individually, he or she will likely respond with better enthusiasm. Knowing the student load of most high school teachers, it is not reasonable to expect it on a weekly basis. However, I would suggest trying to create a bond with at least one teacher or mentor will help with motivation. Another avenue would be to encourage another trusted adult to check in with him or her on a regular basis. This could be a coach, a neighbor, or a family friend.

On the other hand this group can still be motivated by both pressure and incentives. Pressure certainly comes from “What are you going to do after high school?” and other well-intentioned questions. Or it could come from a need for certain grades in order to be accepted into a desired post-secondary institution. Additionally, other learners are motivated by wanting to get a job or be able to make choices for themselves.

The three ideas of privileges, pressure, and personal touches provide motivation for many learners.

Until next time, keep trying and best wishes-Michelle

Avoid Procrastination in Virtual Learning with These Tips

“Procrastination is the cause and solution to all things!” I created this saying to express how to deal with the common stressors in life. Yet it is so very true. Why am I stressed today? I put off doing the important things yesterday? How do I get out of stressing today? Hm…I’ll do it tomorrow. I find myself frequently faced with this sort of challenge until I am backed against a deadline. Then, watch out…productiveness occurs! Successful virtual learners break this cycle to increase productivity.

As a teacher, I see two types of students. The first likes to get all of his or her work immediately completed and turned. For instance, I teach a class that has once a week assignments. A vast majority of students turn the assignment in a day or two. 

However, the other group needs almost daily reminders about upcoming and late assignments. The focus of this post belongs to the PROCRASTINATORS. The following tips could help break the procrastination cycle.

The Why

Think about the last time procrastination reared its ugly head. Some of the most likely culprits include disliking the task, not feeling confident with how to do the task, a desire to do something different or need to relax. Track your thought patterns for one week. Finding the “why” helps to determine your next steps. Revisit this after tracking your thoughts for a week to better approach your virtual learning tasks.

Disliking the task

As a teacher I dislike grading papers. I enjoy reading the responses that my students give me, but I don’t like assigning grades. I realize that many students attach a high level of self-worth to grades, creating high levels of anxiety and stress. I do not like to feel like I am responsible for this stress. Yet, I also realize that by not grading papers in a timely manner, I also contribute to stress that students feel. So, I generally force myself to grade papers at least once a week. I do it all at once, like ripping off a band-aid. The frequency of this action depends on the nature of the task.

I suggest for this type of procrastination to pick a time once a day or so to do the undesired tasks at once.

Lack of Confidence

As a special education teacher, I find this procrastination point to be the most poignant. I know students that spend a large amount of time researching things like “fully explain your logic.” What exactly does this mean? What does it mean for this teacher? What level of explaining do I need to do? 

Then students plunge into the rabbit hole. They complete a Google search for the topic. Then, spend the next hour reading through other responses deciding which one is like theirs. Or, the unthinkable happens…something distracts them. When distraction is just a click away, this happens very frequently. Finally, something jolts them back to the task at hand and they are no closer to “fully explaining your logic.”

My suggestion to support this procrastination tactic is to use a technique called three then me. Ask the student to reach out to three supports and then contact the teacher. Start with a friend or two in the class. Phone/text/email someone in the class and ask, “How did you answer?” If this does not help, ask a trusted adult. Finally, ask the teacher. This process accomplishes a couple of things. Not only does this offer a way to understand the problem, it helps to build and continue relationships with peers.

Doing Something Different

This is a hard one. I could go high-handed and say “It’s called work, not happy play time.” But in a virtual setting many students struggle with this procrastination idea. Students find so many distractors; some are even positive. Perhaps a sibling needs help on his or her work. Maybe grandma wants to spend some time. The grass needs to be mowed. Netflix has a new show. I will check to see what my friends posted on Instagram. Many more exist.

A schedule offers the best solution. Decide the night before to dedicate at least 5 hours of the next day to doing school work. I would suggest doing it first, but realistically any 5 hours would be a great start. 

Think about getting up an hour sooner than you normally do. Schedule your time and go through the resources here. What needs to be done by the end of today? What do I need to finish from the day before? Then schedule it out. Most high school students can focus for 20-30 minutes at a time. Then take a break. I like to set a 20 minute timer and tell myself that I cannot get distracted until it goes off. Then, I set a break timer for 10 minutes of doing something else, preferably to get up and move. Then, set another 20 minute work timer, adjusting for age and ability. 

Need to Relax

The need to relax frequently overlaps with the previous topic. I find myself using distractions like social media to “relax.” However, the motivation to offer yourself a time to relax is slightly different. I believe that this goes back to the need to relieve stress and to feel free of the burdens of school and life. 

The difference lies in how to approach this. When I worked in my doctoral program, a friend of mine in the classes suggested to “Eat a Frog.” A search of this topic brings up millions of hits on how to avoid procrastination. The idea is to do the thing you don’t want to do first. As I am writing this blog I have been distracted by music, social media, the desire to have another cup of tea, the thought of laundry and other cleaning, and my pets. Yet, even with minor setbacks, I am writing this. I know that my sleeping husband and children will wake soon and my writing focus will be shot for the day. Experience tells me this is the only time I will choose to work today.

So, I am eating my frog. I am writing this blog. Much the same with virtual learning. Pick out the task that you would really prefer to avoid and do it first. This gives you a sense of accomplishment and the other items will be less tedious, perhaps even enjoyable. Without that undesired task looming overhead, productivity will increase, anxiety will decrease, and the five hours of time scheduled for school work may be more than you need.

Procrastination is the cause and solution to all things, but you are stronger than the desire to avoid work. And if you need support or someone to help motivate you to keep going, reach out to be added to my email list and receive information on services I offer to support virtual learning.

Decrease Stress for Virtual High School Learners

When older students take charge of their education, a schedule becomes very important. At the beginning of the day and the end of the day take time to plan the next learning session’s activities. The morning check will look for the items that need to be completed in the day. Many teachers utilize check lists or calendar functions to support this. However if the teachers are not sharing a tool feel free to use mine linked here

Check the nightly list

Begin the morning session with a check of the list from the day before. Is the learner waiting on an email from a teacher? See if it was answered. Is there a group project that needs input from other members? If the information did not show up, follow up with another email to the student and possibly to the teacher. Was there an assignment that needed to be finished? Finish that up before starting the new material. You may also need to look at doing an analysis of why the assignment was not completed. Look for any assignments that teachers returned to make changes. Lastly, check scheduled meetings.

Morning List

Create a morning list that shows all of the work that needs to be accomplished for the day. Some school districts present live or synchronous sessions, meaning teachers expect students to be online and take part in class from home. Other districts provide asynchronous lessons, lessons are created using recorded videos. Finally, some classes are held in hybrid or Hyflex. This means that students receive the lessons from teachers in different formats. The format could depend on scheduling some students at school and some virtually.

Regardless of the format, create a work plan based on:

  • When do synchronous lessons occur?
  • Which assignments are due first?
  • Which assignments can be completed independently?
  • What will the student need help doing? 

How do you Eat an Elephant?

One bite at a time…

The next step is starting. I have read several self-help books that say get started ½ hour earlier than the day before. This is great for me as a 40 year old, but as a teen, I am not sure that getting up early works. So, my suggestion is this…be up at least one hour before something is required or no later than 9 am. Then, expect to work for 5-6 hours on school activities. Remember this time includes both the time at school and homework time.

Second bite…create the checklist.

Third bite…

Pick something to do. Some people prefer to get the hardest thing out of the way and then the rest of the day is easy.  Others need a warm-up with something easy. Finally, sometimes there is a required starting point…Zoom meeting at 10:00 for Algebra II. 

Final bite…

If you need help getting this set-up. Let me know how I can help. As a special education teacher, I frequently ask these questions, leaving parents out of the middle of the conflict at the beginning.

Resources for Virtual Education Students

I read an article today regarding how to develop successful virtual learners. It noted that those that had consistent parental support succeeded more frequently than those that did not have this advantage. Yet, most households do not have stay at home parents. Further, depending on the student’s grade, parents may not be able to help, even if time was not a limiting factor. I am not talking just about high school calculus. I know parents that do not understand some of the ways that teachers do elementary math. How does a parent provide that support?

1. Help student help themselves

Sometimes verbalizing steps activates the memory of how to do something. “How did the teacher do this” “Can you show me an example that the teacher did or on a different assignment?” “What is the first thing you do when…?”

2. Allow the child to be the teacher

If this does not spark the child’s memory, try watching the learning video with them and make the child the expert. “Teach me how to do this assignment.” This is especially useful with younger children. From my experience this not only increases the ability to recall the information, but also triggers increased interest and effort. 

3. Peer Support

Reach out to a classmate. Research shows that peer to peer assistance provides a great resource for not only academic information, but also to maintain social connections.  And opportunities for socialization decrease as students work online.

4. Communicate with the teacher

Also reach out to the teacher regarding the class. In my experience teachers reply to request for help with additional supports, examples, and/or individualized videos or meetings. Just like in class, ASK THE TEACHER!

5. Internet supports

If all else fails use some of the great online resources out there including Khan Academy for Math, Purdue Owl for writing papers, and many more resources exist with a simple search.

6. Virtual Education Consultant

Finally, hire a virtual education consultant. What is this? This is me, a paid consultant relieves the stress of being the bad guy. As a special education teacher, I frequently contact students regarding missing, late, or otherwise unacceptable work. I work as a support between the teacher, student, and family to provide organization strategies to help with work completion, scheduling to help with turning work on time, and support on many subjects that need a different method of explanation. 

These are my favorite quotes from students:

“I wouldn’t have graduated high school without Mrs. R; she believed in me when no one else did.”

“You are the main reason I will graduate high school on time.”

Those students and many more needed a bit more personalized attention, than other students. They needed another layer of accountability, not just parents complaining that they did not get their work completed. 

Whatever the barrier, I would like to provide personalized support and to help develop a plan for success.

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